Why do families kill their daughters in pakistan?

What is an ‘honour killing’?


Protest in Pakistan to stop honour killing
  •  It is the killing of a member of a family who is perceived to have brought dishonour upon relatives.


Five women were allegedly killed in June 2012 after footage showed them singing at a wedding in northern Pakistan

Pressure group Human Rights Watch says the most common reasons are that the victim:
-refused to enter into an arranged marriage
-was the victim of a sexual assault or rape
-had sexual relations outside marriage, even if only alleged
But killings can be carried out for more trivial reasons, like dressing in a way deemed inappropriate or displaying behaviour seen as disobedient.

“The perpetrator seeks to excuse it as some sort of protection of their family’s honour, reputation or values,” says Mustafa Qadri, Pakistan researcher for Amnesty International.

Last year, three women were killed in Pakistan after being captured on video “smiling and laughing in the rain outside their family home”.

Men may also be targeted, by members of the family of a woman with whom they are perceived to have had an inappropriate relationship.

Last year in India, a young couple were murdered in Haryan state because they planned to marry despite being from the same caste. Nidhi Barak, 20, was beaten to death and Dharmender Barak, 23, dismembered alive.

Perpetrators have sometimes tried to justify their actions on religious grounds – but none of the world’s main religions condone honour-related crimes.

In some countries, these tribal customs have been codified into law, which may constitute legal grounds for killing a family member.

In Pakistan’s Federally Administered Tribal Areas for example, “rivaj” – or tribal custom – is codified without being defined. This could be interpreted to provide a legal basis for a killing, says Mr Qadri.
A collective failure by the authorities to prosecute such crimes, and the tacit endorsement by local clerics, contribute to them being more accepted, says Mr Qadri.

But above all else, they are a feature of deeply patriarchal societies where there is a belief that a woman’s actions reflect on the men around her, he adds.

Killings have previously sparked protests in places like Pakistan
Women’s advocacy groups suspect the global figure is likely to be closer to 20,000 victims per year – but Mr Qadri thinks the figure is probably hundreds of thousands.
One recent high profile case was that of 17-year-old Shafilea Ahmed, whose parents were convicted of suffocating her with a plastic bag. Prosecutors said her parents believed she had brought dishonour on the family by wearing Western-style clothing and mixing with white friends.

                      Shafilae Ahmed

How does a family decide to kill?

“In the name of preserving so-called family honour, women and girls are shot, stoned, burned, buried alive, strangled, smothered and knifed to death,” said a statement from the UN on International Women’s Day.

Sometimes killings happen spontaneously, but in other cases they may be formal and organised. A meeting may be held by male family members and senior women who decide if a woman should be killed, and work out the method.

In the latest widely-reported case, Farzana Parveen, who was three months pregnant, was pelted with bricks and bludgeoned by relatives furious because she married against their wishes.

Most such killings are particularly difficult to prove or prosecute. There are often no witnesses and little motivation within the community for police to pursue suspects.

In Pakistan, conviction rates are very low because of blood-money laws which allow kin to forgive perpetrators, usually family members in such cases.

Even if convicted, men who have taken part may sometimes receive reduced sentences.

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